The Spradley's @ Shivers Green Rd

Step Up For Sullivan

2010-09-21T07:48:00.000-07:00

A walk in memory of Sullivan's 11th birthday is scheduled for November. We are planning this fundraising event for MADD SC (Mother's Against Drunk Driving) as well as a scholarship in his name. I am listing the details of the event and ask if anyone has any questions to contact me for more details. My cell #803-338-3573 and home #803-438-8579, email address spradley4@bellsouth.net

Saturday, Nov 6th

Registration begins at 9am; Walk begins at 10am

Lugoff Elgin High School Stadium

Registration is $25 (includes t-shirt)

REGISTRATION DEADLINE 10/15

Payment can be made thru Paypal
Be sure to indicate your payment as a "gift"

We are looking for sponsors to help make this event a success. Sponsors are being asked to donate $100 and your logo will be on the tshirt.

If you would like to have a team to walk, or if you would like to walk in memory of a loved one, please let me know. If you are walking in memory of someone and would like to set up a tribute for them the day of the walk, we welcome you.

We look forward to an amazing event honoring our loved ones and helping to keep their memory alive.

Thanking you in advance for you support!

Remembering Sullivan

2010-06-16T09:22:00.000-07:00

Seems like just yesterday we had a very active, energetic, happy Sullivan running around playing and enjoying life. It's so hard to believe that he has been gone for 5 years now. We will forever treasure the memories we have, but we will always have a void in our hearts and in our lives. We have come to realize that grief is not a temporary thing. You live with grief your entire life. We miss Sullivan like crazy and would give our own life to have him back. We are so thankful for the atonement of Jesus Christ and for the blessing of eternal life. We know we will be reunited one day. Until that day, we will spend each day missing Sullivan and loving him more and more.

SCDC

2009-10-07T06:33:00.001-07:00

I sent an email to the Govenor today in hopes of having the man who killed Sullivan returned to the facility he was at. We requested he NOT be moved, and they moved him anyway. What are our rights?

We have met on a couple of occasions, and I am coming to you for guidance. Our son, Sullivan, was killed by a drunk driver in 2005. The individual responsible was sentenced to 13 years. We recently received a letter from the SCDC in reference to the inmate being assigned to a work crew. I spoke with Monica Wallace with the Div of Classification and Inmate Records on 9/8/09 and protested this. I also protested the inmate being moved from the Wateree Correctional Institute to the Manning Correctional Institute. From what I understand this would be a priviledge for him to be transferred and I do not feel that he deserves any priviledges. I have spoken with the Victim Services Office and I do not like the response I was given for him being transferred. The reason for the transfer was so that he could be closer to his mother. His mother lives on the same street we live on and resides in the same county as the Wateree Correctional Institute. I feel this reason was just that, a reason fabricated just so he could be moved. From what I have read on the SCDC website, the Manning Correctional Institute does not have a fenced in perimeter. This concerns me. I have a problem with him being transferred after we requested that he stay at Wateree.
Please advise us on what we can do. I realize as a victim, we DO NOT have any rights. The inmates and criminals seem to have all the rights. The inmate can request to be moved to a facility closer to his family, and what can we request to be closer to ours? NOTHING, he KILLED our son. We can only visit his grave.
Thank you for your attention in this matter. I look forward to hearing from you at your earliest convenience.
Thanks again,Tonya Spradley

Saxon's First Birthday

2009-07-10T14:15:00.000-07:00

Saxon had a very nice birthday. YES, I know...it was a month ago. I'm just SO behind. Between computer problems, potty-training Sawyer and doing school work with Spencer (not to mention the everyday stuff) time has really gotten away from me and I am so ashamed.

However, he had a wonderful birthday! We had some family to stop in to visit, other members didn't feel the need. lol! Saxon didn't know what was going on with the cake and gifts. His party was the Saturday following his birthday. He slept an hour after the party had started. Two days before, he had gotten 3 shots at his check up. BTW: I do not recommend shots before any scheduled event. Overall, he is very healthy...a little on the small side, but healthy and we are thankful for that. He is only in the 25th percentile for height and 40th percentile for weight. He is growing up so fast and picking up so much from his brothers and cousins.

We still can't believe that it has been a year. We love him so much! It's hard to think about him being our "caboose". We have been so blessed with having such healthy, handsome boys. They are each so special in their very own way!

Father's Day

2009-06-21T20:48:00.000-07:00

Today is bittersweet for our family. We try to keep a busy so we don't spend the entire day crying. It's not hard to find something to do around here. Anyway, we gave Tim a new grill for Father's Day. Thanks to Libby for picking it up for us and to Keith Barton for putting it together AND delivering it. He's wonderful! We tried it out yesterday and then this evening we had Keith, Jody and Natalie over for dinner.

I could not ask for a better husband and father. (Sorry ladies...I have the best!) Tim...you are a wonderful man who provides for us so that I may raise our children. We are so blessed to have you in our lives. We love you so much! Happy Father's Day Tim !

I almost forgot to mention that we went to the cemetery and the roadside memorial and lit a candle at 8:45, the time of Sullivan's accident. Thanks to Jody, Keith, Natalie + Tyler for staying with the kids.

Mother's Day

2009-05-24T22:40:00.000-07:00

My wonderful family treated me to a nice Mother's Day this year. Tim gave me a half day of beauty at Logan Raye Spa, which included a facial, 55 minute massage, manicure + pedicure. The boys gave me some new headphones for the gym.

I truly am blessed to be a mother to 4 wonderful, sweet, loving, energetic boys.

2nd Grade Trip to the Beach

2009-05-24T22:32:00.000-07:00

Tim was kind enough to chaperone Spencer's class on a field trip to the beach last week. They left around 8am and returned at 6:30pm. They went to the Myrtle Beach State Park, Aquarium and IMAX Theater. As you can see, they all had a great time.

Spencer with Olivia + Kaitlyn, Spencer + Kerrick and Spencer + Dylan H.

Mrs. Vandevander's class

Citation Holder

2009-05-20T14:24:00.001-07:00

We were contacted a few weeks ago by SC Department of Public Safety, who is interested in having Sullivan's name and picture put on a citation holder for traffic tickets issues by the Highway Patrol. What a way to honor Sullivan and keep his memory alive. These citation holders will be used in our area, which also may include Richland and Sumter Counties, I'm not sure. Anyway, we feel so honored that the Director of SCDPS ask specifically for Sullivan's picture to be used. I don't know if you remember or not, but a new Director was appointed a while back, so he was not in office whenever Sullivan was killed. This goes to show us how much of an impact Sullivan's story has had on SC. We also found out today that not only will they be using the citation holder, but the grant they received also will include several billboards around the state, paper and digital. Again, what a way to honor the memory of our sweet, sweet Sullivan. We are approaching the 4 year anniversary and we can't think of a better way to honor him!

Spencer's Baptism

2009-05-04T13:44:00.001-07:00

Saturday was Spencer's baptism. We can hardly believe that he is 8. The baptism was held at the Stake Center on Saturday and the confirmation was Sunday at church. Thanks to all who attended and supported our family on this special day. It really meant a lot to us.

Before Spencer went to bed that night, he cried and said that he missed Sullivan. This gave us some time to talk about Sullivan and remember him. We miss him so much, but his spirit was definately there at the baptism.

What a wonderful blessing to have a husband who sacrafices and gives so much for our family. I am so thankful for the things we have been blessed with.

Easter

2009-05-04T06:25:00.000-07:00

Well, well... I'm finally able to sit down and update my blog. Easter has come and gone, I know, but I wanted to share a few pictures. ENJOY!

Sawyer loved the jelly beans, and this coloring table cloth was so much fun for the kids. And it was water proof, so any spills with coloring eggs didn't make a complete mess.

Computer Virus

2009-04-17T10:05:00.000-07:00

We are currently experiencing computer virus issues. Please forgive me for getting anyone else into this mess. Apparently some how I got it on my Facebook page. The computer is going in the shop, so I will be unavailable for a short amount of time.

Thanks for your understanding.

Happy 8th Birthday Spencer

2009-04-02T06:38:00.001-07:00

We have been celebrating Spencer's birthday since last Saturday, and I must say that he has had a wonderful week. It began with a bowling party last Saturday with his friends, then a family party at home, then a party at school with his friends and a cookie the actual day of his birth. We rounded out the celebration with a visit to Lake Wateree State Park to visit one of Tim's service tech's who was camping with his family. Spencer really enjoyed all the fun with his friends! Thanks to all for the birthday wishes!

Now that he is 8, he will be getting baptized on May 2 at 5pm at Fort Jackson Stake Center (unless they change it). We can hardly believe that it has been 8 years since he entered our lives. We can definately say that is has been a memorable 8 years. I always kinda wondered why he was so busy and entertaining, but when we lost Sullivan, Spencer was the one who got me through some of the hardest days of my life. His laughter and general busy self helped to occupy my mind. I can remember standing at the refrigerator one day (for who knows how long) with the door open, just staring into it, when just as I was about to lose it and go into a crying fit, Spencer came up to me and distracted me. We had lots of these moments, and I am so thankful for his sweetness in my daily life. On the outside, he seems to be doing well, but he still has his moments when he cries for Sullivan, and tells me, "I just want him to come back." What in the world do you say to that? I mostly assure him that Sullivan is with us (in our hearts) and we will be together again one day. I am convincing myself as well as him. Our lives will never be normal, nor do I think I will ever find true happiness on the earth. We just deal with the hand we are dealt and go on.

Sorry to have rambled, but I just wanted everyone to know how Spencer has been such an instrumental part of my healing process. He is our very special 8 year old and we love him more and more each day!

Another tooth

2009-03-31T20:00:00.000-07:00

Saxon has another tooth. But this one is not where you think it would be. It is on top next to the 2 front teeth~~go figure! This is going to make quite a smile! ;) Once it's in good, I will post a picture.

Kids say the darndest things...

2009-03-31T19:56:00.000-07:00

Our kids constantly amaze me with the things they can come up with. Here are a couple of examples.

While Tim, Spencer and Sawyer were riding down the road, Spencer said, "I like girls and dogs." Sawyer looks over at him and says, "whatever Spencer!" How funny!!!

Last night Spencer needed to read in his book before bed, so I told him to bring his book and join me in the recliner (where I was attached to Medela) and he told me, "do you see how late it is? It is WAY past my bedtime, it's 8:55." Funny how all of a sudden time matters.

Good Character

2009-03-16T14:41:00.001-07:00

Here is the absolute cutest thing. Spencer's friend Kerrick submitted this "gift for good character" in honor of Spencer, for "being quiet when somebody is talking" (just in case you needed clarification).

Circus

2009-03-13T15:08:00.000-07:00

We had a wonderful time at the circus last night. Spencer and Sawyer really enjoyed themselves. I don't think Sawyer moved for the first half. We made it there in time to enjoy the pre-show on the floor where the kids had the opportunity to try on some of the clothing, watch the elephant paint a picture and watch the acrobats. We had a blast!

Saxon @ 9 months

2009-03-10T18:41:00.000-07:00

Can you believe that Saxon is 9 months old? We can't. He is really growing up. He has amazed us in the last couple of days with the things he is doing. He started walking! Yes....NO! Just kidding. Just wondering if anyone is reading my blog or just browsing at pictures. LOL!

Seriously, he is crawling and climbing everywhere. He has 2 teeth, pulling up on everything, standing up in the pack 'n play and crib. We cannot believe how fast he is growing....didn't I say that already? Honestly his first year will be over and our very last baby will be a big boy! It's bitter sweet, but we are loving every minute of it!

Enjoy the many faces of Saxon~we sure do!

Math Night

2009-03-02T08:32:00.001-08:00

We went to Math Night at WES last Thursday. As you can see, they had lots of activities for the kids to do. I think the most fun activity was the time challenge on the smartboard. It's a new tool to each of the classrooms and the kids love it. Spencer (and Sawyer) really had a fun time!

We FINALLY have a tooth!

2009-02-27T13:47:00.000-08:00

Thank goodness Saxon has finally gotten a tooth in this week. We don't have a picture yet to share, but we FINALLY have a tooth. WOOHOO!

School Projects

2009-02-27T13:39:00.000-08:00

Spencer has made 2 projects lately for school. One was a Famous American Project. His choice was Rachel Ray. We had an old shoebox, so we made an oven out of it. Pretty neat we thought!

He also had to make a 100th day of school project. Since the theme for his school is involving trains, we decide to use trains.

Not only did he have to do research, he had to be able to explain the reports to his class. He made 100 on both! Way to go Spence!!

Sick Visit, Ma-Ma & Army Man

2009-02-17T19:38:00.000-08:00

Saxon had been really, really fussy and not sleeping AT ALL at night. So I decided to take him in to the dr and have him checked out. Of course, for the third time, chest is clear, ears are fine and we think it's just "teething". So after I gathered all of my things and took the "walk of shame" out of the dr's office. Now today I can finally see the 2 teeth on the bottom just about to break the gums. He also has been babbling for some time now and I am always telling him to say "ma-ma" and finally last night HE DID! Tim, Spencer and I just looked at each other with the same expression (WHAT?). At almost the exact same time he was laying on the floor and started the army man crawl trying to get the remote. We did get video, but no pictures.

School Bus

2009-02-13T10:42:00.000-08:00

Spencer started riding the school bus home in the afternoon's this week. The first picture is of him getting off and the second is of him and Sawyer greeting each other. If I would've know they would've had this reaction to one another, I would've had my video camera. Tim Spencer's feet hit the ground he started running and so did Sawyer. They ran to each other and hugged. It was the sweetest thing! ENJOY!!

Sawyer vs. the pantry door

2009-02-11T14:35:00.001-08:00

For some reason Sawyer thinks the further you open the pantry door the more snacks you can get. SO, last week he broke the door completely off. Don't worry, we had it fixed and now all of our groceries are not decorating items.

New Pictures

2009-02-03T14:47:00.000-08:00

Here are a few new pictures: Sawyer 2years, Saxon 6 months and the boys at Christmas.

Dr Visit

2009-02-03T06:43:00.000-08:00

Today Sawyer had his 2 year check up with Dr Finch. And since we were going Saxon was checked out too. He has been a little congested for a few days~turns out it is just that, a cold. He prescribed a decongestant and all was a~ok with him. Saxon weighed 18 lbs. 10 ozs. THEN, it was time for Sawyer's check up. Thank goodness Tim came to help out. Sawyer does not like going to the doctor. He weighed 26 lbs and is 35 inches tall. He is in the 40th percentile for height and 30th for weight. Although this is low, the dr is not concerned at this time. He did get one shot (which Tim held him down for...THANKS TIM!) I can't believe how fast all our boys are growing. Spencer is getting so tall and slim. I can remember at his 3 yr check up our concern was his short height~ things are really changing now. Enjoy the slide show of Sawyer taking pictures in the waiting room. There was lots more but I will spare you. Have a good week!

Family Pictures

2009-02-02T05:17:00.001-08:00

These pictures were actually taken in September, but I am just now getting around to ordering them and sharing. Saxon was 12 weeks old (he is currently 7 months 3 wks...like I said I'm a little behind). Enjoy!

For some reason they all scanned blurry~sorry ;).

Michael's 16th Birthday

2009-01-31T19:26:00.001-08:00

Happy 16th Birthday to Michael. It's hard to believe that it has been 16 years since he was born. Time flies by! As you can tell, the party was in Tim's shop~which was a good thing since they all decided to have a cake fight. They did all clean it up, so I guess that's ok.

They got a little carried away with the plastic wrap and decided to wrap each other up. I guess there are worse things they could've been doing. I'm glad they all had a good time. Happy Birthday Michael ~ WE LOVE YOU!

Where's Saxon?

2009-01-27T08:16:00.001-08:00

The other morning I put Saxon on his blanket to play. Most of the time he finds the tag on the blanket and plays for a little while. But I heard him grunting and looked in from the kitchen and he was NOT on his blanket. He had rolled and inched all the way back to the table. It's amazing the things he can do at only 7 months. :) As you can see, he really hated moving around.

Let it Snow!

2009-01-20T14:44:00.000-08:00

Finally, we woke up to snow this morning. Spencer really enjoyed being out of school and Sawyer loved him being home. We headed out about 8:45 this morning to let the kids play. It took us about 45 minutes to get everyone dressed, so I intended on staying out longer than 10 minutes. We all boarded the golfcart and cruised around the yard and woods. IT WAS COLD! The wind and snow was blowing in our faces, so we finally had to come inside and thaw out. About an hour or so later the kids headed back out to build a snowman...or shall I say snowbaby. It's so cute! We did manage to get some writing out of Spencer, he wrote a little story about the snow.

Hope everyone enjoyed their day! Afterall, who knows when we will get snow again!

Happy 2nd Birthday Sawyer

2009-01-12T18:47:00.000-08:00

Today is Sawyer's 2nd birthday. It's hard to believe that it has been 2 years since he blessed our lives. We are kept in stitches at the things these boys can come up with. I thought Spencer was the family comedian until Sawyer started growing up....Now they always keep us laughing. He had an ok day, to have strep...AGAIN! He spent this morning in the doctor's office. After getting the rx filled and getting a bite to eat we picked Spencer up from school and headed home. This evening we had a few friends and family over for a birthday cookie and some viddles. His actual party with his friends and family was on Saturday. Thanks to all who attended and celebrated with us. Thanks for all the great gifts.

We love you Sawyer!!

Sawyer's new "DO"

2009-01-06T07:47:00.001-08:00

I decided to face the wrath of attempting to give Sawyer a haircut yesterday. The last couple of cuts I have paid for, we didn't exactly get our monies worth. He normally kicks and screams and throws a complete fit....so, I decided to put him in our tub and cut it myself. I figured I could pay someone to gap it up or I could do it myself. ;) (I cut Spencer's during the break in the shower and it worked out pretty well.) I think it turned out ok. Of course my brother said he could teach me how to fade it on the sides, so I told him to just hold the clippers and turn them on and stand by Sawyer and see what kind of reaction he'll get. All in all, I think it's cute. Just in time for birthday pictures and party.

Happy New Year

2009-01-01T19:25:00.000-08:00

I'd like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a very happy new year. At Jenny & Brandon's party last night, Jenny asked us if we had made a resolution for the new year. As much as my mind runs, you would think that I would've had time to make one, but I haven't....I actually haven't had the thought cross my mind. uh!oh! SO, it would be nice in the new year to lose these last baby pounds, read more, be a little more compassionate towards others, get Sawyer through the terrible 2's, get Saxon sleeping through the night and get Spencer through 2nd grade with a better gpa than now. I will continue my work with MADD as a volunteer to keep Sullivan's memory alive. As for Tim, I wish him LUCK. After a little talk a couple of weeks ago, we have decided for Tim to handle all of our finances and I will have a break for the first time in 15 1/2 years. I'm kind of excited about the decision. One, I can't wait for him to see how quickly the money goes, and two we can save some money~~sorry girls~~no spur of the moment shopping ;). I will have an allowance for gas, groceries, etc. but no extra money just waiting to be spent. However, my substitute pay will be all mine. WOOHOO! I'm rolling in the dough ;). This time next year I will update you and let you know where we stand.

My best to all in 2009!!

Christmas

2008-12-30T19:24:00.001-08:00

I am finally posting about our Christmas. We have been running all over for the last week or so. Here are some of the pictures to show what we were up to for Christmas. Our usual traditions were carried on this year and we also started a new tradition. We decided to cut our kids gifts back to 2. Yes, two. Spencer was really the only one we had to explain it to, but he took it very well and didn't seem to mind at all. We also decided to buy gifts for a family. I guess you can say we "adopted" a family. Spencer was the most excited about this whole experience. He took part in making the shopping list and buying some of the gifts. We wrapped all the gifts on Christmas Eve day and after our Dove family party, it was time for the "drop off". We turned off our headlights as we made our way toward the house. Spencer and I sneaked all the gifts out the back of the car, and tiptoed up to the door. We had made our plan before getting out of the car. We placed all of the gifts on the step, knocked on the door and took off running. Tim was parked in the dark waiting to drive away as soon as we were in the car. But we did get to see the ladies face whenever she opened the door, looked around and found the gifts. This was one of the high lights of my Christmas~as well as all our family. We enjoyed giving and teaching our kids that giving is much better than receiving.

We also decided to get out of town on Christmas Day. We headed down to the beach for some R&R. But our R&R didn't turn out quite as we had planned. Tim and I both got a stomach virus and spent the last day or so sick~YUCK!! Things are looking up now, thankfully the kids have not gotten it...yet!

We hope you all had a very merry christmas and we wish you the absolute very best in 2009.

Family Photo Shoot

2008-12-22T20:27:00.000-08:00

We decided to take a few pictures before Tim, Chris, Sarah and I attended the Palmetto Drag Racers Dinner on Saturday. The picture says it all~~and you wonder where the kids get their silliness from!

Elf-vis

2008-12-22T20:17:00.001-08:00

WES second grade had their cookie decorating night and Play last week. Every family had a big christmas tree cookie to decorate (which I gladly ate :).

In case you are wondering about Sawyer, he was mesmerized by Gunner and Katlin.

Then they big performance. The kids had to "try-out" for the parts, and Spencer was a rockin' elf. He really enjoyed the role. I must say I was a little surprised that he actually did the part with so many people in attendance. He did such a great job.

Another case of Strep

2008-12-12T07:23:00.000-08:00

Apparently Spencer also has strep. So whenever I took Saxon for his check up, I picked up a rx for Spencer. Let's hope this is all gone soon. I can barely remember everything I need to remember now, how am I suppose to remember 2 prescriptions to be given twice daily??? Wish me luck!!

Strep

2008-12-09T17:53:00.001-08:00

Sawyer has been running a fever since Sunday, and then today he had a rash all over. So I decided to take him to the doctor since the tylenol wasn't doing much for him. Well guess why? He has strep. After the visit, we headed over to Target to get the prescription filled whenever I talked to Leslie and found out that Publix fills antibiotics for FREE! Can you believe it? I marched right up to the pharmacy and ask for my rx back and took it right over to Publix. Well, this picture has nothing to do with Sawyer being sick, I just thought it was funny. Sawyer went in the playroom the other day and came out fussing about something, so whenever I turned around I saw he had a movie box stuck to his pants....too cute!

Santa Visit

2008-12-08T18:25:00.001-08:00

So if you haven't been, you need to go see Santa at Dutch Square Mall. He is just sitting there all alone waiting on kids to come see him. The best part, you bring your own camera and take your own photo. Is that great or what?
I know, you're thinking...Dutch Square? Yes, for the most part it is a ghost town, but hey for a free picture....we'll drive out there.

As you can see, "Mr Chit~Chat-Never-meet a stranger Spencer" jumped right in and started telling Santa what he wanted. He also told him about our "2 GIFT RULE". We all discussed it and decided the kids would all get only 2 gifts this year. Then, can you believe Spencer said, he really doesn't have to bring us anything, we have enough. Talk about a head swelling on mom. I felt so proud that he could put aside all the gifts and wants, to say enough is enough.

We were also inspired by Pres. Giles talk on giving and Christmas that we have decided to take on a little "project" of our own. No details will be given.

Sawyer wasn't so sure about Santa. He kept his distance until finally we convinced him to sit on Spencer's lap. Whenever you ask him what does he want for Christmas, he just looks at you. He hasn't a clue.

Of course Saxon was enjoying life and smiling away!

Spradley Family Updates

2008-11-23T19:08:00.001-08:00

Here are a few pictures of the ongoings at our home! This year is flying by. Spencer is enjoying school, Sawyer is crazy as ever and Saxon is growing like a weed. We attempted baby food with Saxon yesterday. For the most part I think he liked it. The pictures are "HILARIOUS!" Thanks Leslie for being my photographer....boy did she get some good shots. ENJOY!

Sullivan's 9th Birthday

2008-11-22T17:12:00.000-08:00

Today we celebrated Sullivan's 9th birthday with a balloon release, lunch and a cake. It was a small family event. We began our day by taking a floral cake to the cemetery and the roadside. Then home to prepare for lunch and balloon release. We released balloons at 1:44pm, which is the time of Sullivan's birth. We have always done something special at the time of our children's birth. For his first birthday, he and I were headed to the doctor for his check up and we pulled over to the side of the interstate to video him for a minute. Small things like this mean a great deal now.

If your children don't realize how important they are to you, make it a point to let them know...no matter how old or young. Always tell them how much you love them! A bond between a parent and child is something that is unbreakable. Boys hold a special place in mom's heart, and will always by my little boys! :)

Sullivan

2008-11-18T07:46:00.000-08:00

Sullivan's 9th birthday is Saturday, so I decided to blog about it a few days before. Although we are SOOO busy with school, church, babies and life in general, we still miss Sullivan everyday. We miss his smile and laughter, his loving personality and most of all his hugs and kisses. We feel his spirit with us and we know we will be an eternal family one day, but sometimes that doesn't seem to ease the pain. Our days are a little (fraction) easier now, but we still miss everything about him. We sometimes pull out an old video to watch just to hear his voice (with his sweet little lisp) and see his smiling face. We have planned something special for his birthday at the time of his birth and will post about it at a later time. Please pray for our family and loved ones who are coping with Sullivan's loss. We will forever miss him and our love will continue to grow day by day! Until our reunion day ~ WE LOVE YOU SULLIVAN!!

Sullivan's 5th Birthday Party

Fear Factor

Family Fun Day 2008

2008-11-17T06:11:00.000-08:00

Thanks to everyone for helping make this event a success. We enjoyed our day remembering Sullivan and supporting MADD Kershaw County. Despite the weather, we raised $700 on Saturday. We also had $1000 donation from BCBS as well as others. Thank you for your donations and support!

Family Fun Day!!

2008-11-14T09:05:00.000-08:00

Family Fun Day

In Memory of

Sullivan

Sat, Nov 15 11~2

Scott Park, Battleship Road

Camden

RAIN OR SHINE!!

Veteran's Day Parade

2008-11-11T18:59:00.000-08:00

Michael marched in the Veteran's Day Parade today downtown. Joey Conte is on the end carrying the gun and Michael is next to him carrying the Lugoff-Elgin white flag. Being at the parade made me proud to have the frredom we enjoy day to day. God Bless the USA ~ who knows what the future holds.

Happy Veteran's Day

2008-11-11T05:01:00.001-08:00

Here is an "oldie" but a goodie. This is a picture of my veteran after he graduated from Basic Training at Fort Jackson in 1990. Has it really been 18 years??? Oh how time does fly. Tim went on to AIT in El Paso, Texas and then to Iraq to fight in Desert Storm. He safely returned home just before I graduated from high school. I love you Tim !!!

Happy Veteran's Day!

Thanks to all of our service men and women who fight for our freedom!

Friendly Reminder

2008-11-03T11:16:00.000-08:00

Don't forget...

VOTE

Tomorrow!!

Happy Halloween

2008-10-31T20:38:00.001-07:00

Tonight we hosted a Halloween Party. I must say that we all had a very good time. The kids loved it! Well...most of it. The hayride was a little scary for some of them. Thanks to all who came and participated! We will definately make this an annual event. Hope everyone had a safe and happy halloween!

Carving of the Pumpkin

2008-10-29T11:25:00.000-07:00

Roseola

2008-10-22T17:55:00.000-07:00

Well it seems as though Saxon has gotten roseola. Don't know how or when, but he was apparently exposed to it 7~10 days before the rash broke out. SO, he was contagious last week when he was running fever....however, I attributed the fever to the 4 shots he was given at his well check-up last Monday. Bless his little heart, he hasn't slept well in 4 nights (neither have we) and has been so fretful during the day. Luck for me, I worked at school today so my mom dealt with him all day. But now it's sundown and he's all mine. :) Happy sleeping to all of you! Enjoy your rest ~ atleast you are getting some! LOL

The State Fair '08

2008-10-16T07:49:00.000-07:00

Spencer, Sawyer & I enjoyed an afternoon at the fair on Wednesday. The kids had a blast, even though Sawyer was too small to ride anything. Thankfully my mom watched Saxon so he didn't have to beat the heat with us! ENJOY!

How dare you?

2008-10-14T07:47:00.000-07:00

At approximately 7pm on Monday, Oct 13, my niece and I put a political sign in my front yard. It was far enough from the road that it was not considered "county property", so it was actually on my property. (Apparently political signs have to be on private property) Anywho, this morning at approximately 7:15 am, the sign was gone. How dare someone come into my yard, trespassing no less, and take something that does not belong to them?

You can take away my sign, but you cannot take away my vote. You may disagree with the candidates or what they stand for, but I urge you to NOT listen to the "driveby media" and seek for yourself what the candidates stand for and then exercise your right to vote.

Remember: NOV 4th VOTE!

Saxon at 4 months

2008-10-14T06:07:00.000-07:00

Look at our little chunky dunk...

15 lbs 9.5 ozs
25 inches long
50th percentile for weight and height

He's graduated from his cradle into a porta crib (thanks Pam). And he doesn't miss a thing...especially me. Wherever I go in a room, he doesn't miss me. He is another sweet, sweet boy. But what should I expect right?!! :)

Sneaky Sawyer

2008-10-14T05:51:00.000-07:00

Sawyer took the opportunity while I was pumping to sneak Saxon's pacifier and enjoy some private playtime. It was too cute not to take a picture of. Then of course I took on the Mommy role and explained he shouldn't.

This is a new reaction Sawyer has had whenever he eats some dairy products...not milk, not egg...so go figure. We will see how things progress. Looks like Trent is getting over his allergies and Sawyer may be getting them? Hopefully not!

Cookie Time

2008-10-14T05:43:00.001-07:00

It's cookie time. The kids enjoyed some baking time last week. I must say, the cookies were delicious.

Obnoxious

2008-09-29T18:44:00.000-07:00

Spencer had already gone to bed for the night whenever he got up (for the 2nd time) to tell Tim & I that he felt "obnoxious". I said, "You feel what?" He said, "you know when you feel like you are gonna throw up...obnoxious." How funny!! AND, this morning I volunteered in his class and he ask me to come back and eat lunch with him. I told him that I would come home and check on Sawyer and Saxon and that we might come back and eat lunch with him. Well, when I picked him up after school he said that he didn't eat his lunch because he was waiting on me to get there. How bad do I feel? But sometimes, especially at school when I am leaving, it's easier to say maybe than no :)o

Happy Birthday Tim

2008-09-27T19:51:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday to Tim! It just dawned on us, now that the kids are in bed and everyone is settled down for the night that we didn't get any pictures of Tim today. We had soccer this morning and then a much needed lazy day at home. I'll be sure to take one tomorrow and post! OOPS!

Saxon at 3 months

2008-09-14T20:37:00.001-07:00

Saxon is now 3 months old...time is flying by! Contrary to this photo, he still has colic and periodically has crying spells. He also has not been acting himself, so I took him in to the dr on Friday to find that ears, throat and chest are all clear. Dr Finch said that it may be a little bit of reflux, so we are trying a new rx to see if that will help him. He weighed a whopping 14 lbs 2.5 ozs. Can you say chunky dunk?

We're still trying to determine who he looks like, in this picture....hands down...SULLIVAN!

But sometimes he looks like my dad and brother.

Good week wishes to all!

Lessons Learned this Week

2008-09-14T19:23:00.000-07:00

We've had quite an interesting week, to say the least. Here are a few of the high lights;
~a hard fall on your face from the sofa to the floor will trigger Spencer's nose bleeds...AGAIN!
~AM sneezing and not covering your nosebleed will stain a white stripe shirt and cause reason for changing your outfit before 7am for school
~don't hit the snooze too many times when you are scheduled to work
~wallpaper picked by an 18 months olds tiny fingers WILL pull off in small strips
~when 2 boys are left alone and there is silence, someone (Sawyer) is usually locked in the dog crate, but Spencer said the gate wasn't locked (so much for mom pumping and checking blogs)
LAST BUT DEFINATELY NOT LEAST-
Cooking sausage biscuits in the microwave on 4 mintues will cause smoke to roll from the microwave like a chimney in December!

I hope you have gotten a good laugh from our week, because I did. We have to laugh, we have too much going on to cry over small stuff!

Don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff!

How Many of Me?

2008-09-10T18:35:00.000-07:00

This is pretty interesting... check it out!!

HowManyOfMe.com

There are
1
or fewer people with my name in the U.S.A.

How many have your name?

Hot Mama

2008-09-06T08:22:00.000-07:00

Spencer and I were sitting at the table doing homework the other day, while Sawyer was watching Barney and Saxon was napping. And out of the blue Spencer asked me what did I want to be when I grow up? I said, "A mother of 4 boys." He said, "well, what do you want to be when you are 80?" I said, "A grandma and great-grandma." He said, "And you will still be hot! With your stripe pants and black shirt (which is what I had on) wearing your pumps everyday." I couldn't help but lol. How funny is that? And what does he know about being hot and wearing pumps? Talk about making me feel good, since I am still carrying around 20 extra LBs! :)

Sullivan Billboard

2008-09-06T08:16:00.000-07:00

If you have traveled any of the local interstates that have the LCD screen billboards, you may have seen this. DPS asked for pictures of those killed by drunk drivers to post during the "Sober or Slammer" campaign. We drove down Memorial Day and took this picture at the billboard on I77 between Shop Rd and Garners Ferry exits. Tim also saw the billboard in Charleston, so this was state wide, not just Columbia. Three years later and Sullivan is still making an impact!

Soccer time again

2008-09-06T08:08:00.000-07:00

It's soccer time again, and I must say that I am kind of excited. I enjoy watching Spencer (any of our kids) playing sports. He has only had one practice, today's practice was cancelled due to the weather (which ended up being sunny). Seems to be more girls than boys on his team, so this should be an interesting season.

I'm not sure what is so interesting, but Sawyer and his new friend just had to check it out.

Weekend Wedding

2008-08-25T16:15:00.001-07:00

We made a day trip Saturday to Clemson to Sandy and Jonathon's wedding. My mom, sister and niece all went with Tim, myself, Sawyer and Saxon. Leslie was gracious enough to allow Spencer to spend Saturday all day and night with them. The road trip was not so bad, and seemed to fly by...but I guess when you are all talking non-stop time passes quickly. We had a great day and wish years of happiness to the new family!

I think they should've played "Holding out for a hero" as they drove away on the Harley ;)

(Bo & Hope fans will understand)

First Day of 2nd grade

2008-08-19T16:25:00.001-07:00

Spencer is officially back to school. :( I am sad to see him go, and Sawyer kept saying "I cool" (meaning I go to school) and pointing at the door. Tim and I walked him in and the kids and I picked him up. He said that he loved 2nd grade, it was a whole lot more fun than first. He also said that he loves his teacher. By the way, that is a gift for his teacher in his hand. He told me that he REALLY liked his teacher, and when he hugged her she smelled GOOD! lol How cute is that?!! After homework today, I wonder if I am really ready for school, but unfortunately, I have no choice.

Good luck to all the little kiddies this year! Unpacking!

Saxon Update

2008-08-19T16:17:00.001-07:00

This is one of the moments when Saxon wasn't crying. He went for his check up last week ~ 12lbs 2 ozs and 24" long, shew... talk about growing. Anyway, Dr Finch diagnosed him with colic. We had noticed over the last few weeks he just wasn't content, with sleep, feeding or anything. It was easy to explain it away to hungry or sleepy, but the crying wasn't going away. So he gave us a prescription for levlin, and I took it this weekend to get it filled. In the process, Jenny experienced first-hand what kinds of fits he can throw. Tim can't seem to deal with them, and I just can't seem to kiss them away. The more I kiss the more he cries. We've tried everything, and walking is the most beneficial. Once we gave him the rx, he seems very relaxed, a little too relaxed, almost sedated. So after 2 doses (and talking to Ashley who dealt with colic with Emery) we stopped giving it to him. Now I am going to try an all natural method.

Brusha ~ Brusha

2008-08-19T16:11:00.000-07:00

Sawyer has a new toothbrush and loves brushing his teeth. I figure now that he has enough teeth, we may as well get into the habit early enough so it doesn't become a wrestling match as he gets older. He also has been running a fever for over 24 hours now. Mortin seems to keep it down, but as soon as the motrin wears off, the fever goes right back up. We'll keep a watch on it and see what happens. Sarah said Chayce is the same way, and she took her to the doctor but they couldn't find anything wrong. SO, we will wait and see.

Water Park

2008-08-16T19:38:00.001-07:00

We enjoyed a fun filled day at Palmetto Falls Waterpark on Friday. We decided to go out with a bag before school starts, and boy did we! We stayed for over 6 hours. The kids LOVED it! Sawyer and Saxon stayed home with my mom, so Spencer and I got to spend some fun time together. I must say, I think the adults enjoyed the park as much as the kids.

How's this for good photography?!!

Meet the Teacher Night

2008-08-16T19:35:00.001-07:00

Mrs. Vandevander is Spencer's 2nd grade teacher. He is pretty excited. His desk is in a group of several girls...I think he's going to enjoy that. lol! I'm still a little nervous about how I will be on Monday, I think Spence will be just fine.

Beach trip '08

2008-08-13T15:51:00.000-07:00

What's new with Saxon?

2008-08-12T20:03:00.000-07:00

Check out Saxon's rash. This popped up last week at the beach. We didn't put him in the ocean, pool or even water at the house, so where's the rash coming from? We don't know. We got back from the beach Saturday evening and I took him to the doctor on Sunday morning, only to hear, "It must be a reaction to something." No, you think?!! Of course, whenever we got home and went to the doctor the rash was almost completely gone. Tim's theory is he's allergic to the beach and we should just stay home. OK, sure! I was thinking the heat, but now today the rash is coming back. SO who knows? He is scheduled for a well check up on Thursday, so we will see what his regular doctor has to say.

Saxon also took his first nap in his own crib in his/Sawyer's room. AND since he hasn't been sleeping well at night and acting like he is starving every evening when the sun goes down, we decided to give him a little cereal. He liked it and slept from 10pm-5:30am. Isn't that great? He slept all night and Sawyer was up at 3. I guess he has just realized that he has been pacifier free for almost a week. He only had it at night, and I don't think he missed it while we were at the beach, but Tim said the first thing he said Saturday night at bedtime was, "pash?" (that's what he calls it). What is it with these kids? No one here likes to sleep except for Tim & I.

I'll keep you posted on the rash. Anyone else experienced this? Or are we the only ones?

Where's Sawyer?

2008-08-05T09:11:00.000-07:00

Sawyer is doing his best finding things to do while Spencer is at the beach with my parents. Notice the scooter, he was headed up the stairs.

Art Camp

2008-08-02T18:37:00.000-07:00

Talk about late posting, Spencer & Elizabeth attended an Art Camp through the Kershaw County Rec Dept in June. Here are some of the pictures. They really enjoyed themselves. I wasn't sure if Spencer would go alone, so I paid for Elizabeth to go too.

The last day of the camp, all of the kids were signing each others shirts. Notice Spencer's is clean, one of the kids asked to sign his shirt and he said, "No, I want mine to be clean." He truly is my child :) lol

PCR Update

2008-07-31T18:57:00.000-07:00

The PCR hearing for Monday has been postponed. The defense attorney filed for a continuance (is that spelled right?) Anyway, this means we WILL NOT go to court on Monday, it will be September 22 or after. The attorney had requested copies of the transcript from Kershaw County Courthouse and had not received all they needed....SO, no hearing on Monday. I tell you this with mixed emotions. PLEASE, ALLOW ME... Since when can you drink until you are 3x the legal limit, drive around like you own the roads (speeding), take the life of and innocent child, plead guilty and get sentenced to 13 years in prison and STILL have more rights than a regular citizen? Well, you can ! Criminals and prisioners have more rights than you & I. We live with a horrible loss everyday of our lives, we face challenges EVERYDAY that none of you reading these words will ever know. But let's not forget that the person responsible for taking Sullivan so senselessly from us has the right to appeal his sentence. Can you say "PISSED!" Well that doesn't begin to describe the anger we feel, but we manage to get up each and everyday and face each day without Sullivan, only to find out 3YEARS LATER that the individual who took his from us feels that he has been "WRONGED". Oh boo hoo! So sorry for him!

One Tooth; Two Teeth

2008-07-31T18:44:00.001-07:00

Yesterday while I was changing Saxon, Spencer comes running into the living room and said, "Mom look." I could tell something was wrong from the look on his face. Then he explained that while he was playing he hit himself in the mouth and knocked his tooth out. As you can see in the first photo, the two top teeth were holding each other in. After a little convincing, I talked him into pulling the other one with a piece of tissue. Tim tried saturday to get him to tie it to the door. Spencer actually stood there while he tied the string to the door and hooked it on his tooth, then he backed out. And Sarah also tried to talk him into letting her pull it, but NO WAY! So finally, they are out!

Isn't he cute?

Can you see the sarcasm in his face for this pose?

I don't know where he gets it from! :)

PCR

2008-07-29T12:26:00.000-07:00

What is a PCR you ask? PCR stands for Post Conviction Relief. Mr. Brown (convicted of Felony DUI with death for killing Sullivan) has filed a PCR application with the Attorney General's office. Essentially it means he does not feel he had adequate representation from his attorney. From what I understand, this is normal for inmates who plead guilty, so at this point we are not overly concerned. However, we will be attending a hearing on Aug 4 in Richland County. If the judge feels Mr Brown did not receive proper representation, he will have a trial. Help us as we fast and pray this Sunday, August 3, for justice to be served and we will not have to face a trail. Haven't we suffered enough? Is it not enough that we face each day without our precious Sullivan and the one responsible is living and breathing? Where is the conscience? Is there one? Apparently not! Please join us in prayer and fasting. I will not be able to contact everyone individually, so continue to check here for updates! I feel pretty confident that all is well, but prayer never hurt anyone, right!

Thanking you in advance for your faith and prayers!

What a birthday!

2008-07-29T12:11:00.000-07:00

Last Wednesday was my 35th birthday...shew, I'm getting old! :) lol Seriously, I'm not getting old... I don't feel like it, nor do I look it! heehee!!! Anywho, I celebrated in an odd way this year. I had my 6 week checkup at 9am, at 11am Tim & I attended a DUI Enforcement Recognition Luncheon which recognized agencies and officers for DUI enforcement. Then off to an appointment in Lugoff and finally home. My parents had dinner for us! yum-o!

I (along with Cheryl Jones) received a plaque for being the MADD Community Action Site leaders for Kershaw County. Also recognized was Kershaw County Troop for exceptional DUI enforcement! What an honor. Just when you least expect it, you see the changes going on around you! Thanks to all of the law enforcement individuals who risk their lives everyday to make the highways safe for us! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

This picture was taken after a LONG day! notice the ponytail "do"! The morning after this picture, I had ALL of my hair cut off! Thanks Stacey, I love my new look! (Sorry no picture yet) Now I'm working on my baby weight! I actually managed to squeeze in a workout video yesterday. It was a 20 minute DVD that took 40 minutes to complete thanks to a few interruptions. But atleast I completed it! Not sure where the kids shirts are in the picture! Boys will be boys! And if they live here, they are always taking their clothes off :) LOL!!

Potty Time

2008-07-21T12:09:00.000-07:00

I know, I know... 18 months is early to be potty training, but Sawyer is very interested. Last week we started introducing him to the potty, and then last Sunday after church, he had a dry diaper for several hours and my mom put him on the potty and he used it. Of course I wasn't there for the first time, so for my first experience I had to pull out the camera. He used the potty twice yesterday and once today. Who knows if this will last or what is to come...I guess we will wait and see.

Sawyer also went for his 18 month check up today. He has gained 1 pound in 3 months and has grown 3 inches. I know you are thinking... WHAT? But the nurse measured him twice and that's what she come up with. I have noticed that he seemed longer whenever he's sleeping in his crib, so now I know why.

On a humorous note: when Dr Finch was checking him over, he was checking his eyes with the light, and Sawyer says, "cheese". Is he familiar with a camera or what?

We are also headed back to the Dr this afternoon for Saxon. He has a rash on his face and various body parts, so of course, they want to check him out. So stay tuned!

Busy Days

2008-07-19T08:43:00.001-07:00

I decided to post one picture from each kid...gotta keep it fair right?!! Well, here is Sawyer on the slide at Scott Park. The kids and I surprised Tim with a picnic for dinner one evening after he got off work. He has been working so much that we have to squeeze in these things when we can. We had a really fun time. It was so nice to be out of the house. I feel like these walls are closing in on me. lol!

Check out Saxon talking to Tim. He is such a sweet baby, but he is too young to be talking like he does.

And as you can see, Spencer has lost another tooth. His 2 top front teeth are ready to come out. They are leaning on each other to stay in, and he will not pull them out.

Enjoy our updates, because we enjoy yours!

Saxon's Blessing

2008-07-08T16:15:00.000-07:00

Sunday Saxon was blessed at church by Tim. The blessing turned out just wonderful. Tim was so nervous, but he did a wonderful job. And of course, my mom made the outfit...which was so beautiful.

Spencer's New Glasses

2008-07-03T19:19:00.000-07:00

After a visit to the eye doctor on Monday, Spencer has FINALLY gotten his new glasses. You would think most kids wouldn't want them, but Spencer has been SO anxious to get his new glasses. He only has to wear them to school and church, not all the time.

Doesn't he look handsome?!!

Ashley inspired me...

2008-07-01T13:08:00.000-07:00

You Are Snow White!

Pure and trusting. You are a gentle soul who can get along with just about anyone. Everyone you meet instantly falls in love with you. How can they resist? You have a pure, lovable nature that's irresistable. Just don't trust everyone who comes across your path.

Updates

2008-07-01T12:39:00.000-07:00

Saxon went for his 2 week check up today ( a week late). He weighs 9 lbs and 12.5 ozs., he is in the 90th percentile for weight and near the 90th percentile for height. Needless to say, he is doing great. I keep telling everyone that he is the best one yet! I think the more you have the more laid back they get ;) Maybe not, but so far that seems to be our opinion. He is as sweet as he can be and at 3 weeks old is trying to coo. He just lights up whenever I talk to him. He definately brightens up my lonely days!

Here are a couple of pictures of Sawyer and Spencer! ENJOY!

Sawyer vs. baked beans = 1 messy kid

Spencer vs. corn on the cob = one missing tooth

and 4 quarters from the toothfairy

3 Years Without Sullivan

2008-06-19T10:33:00.000-07:00

This picture was taken a few days before Sullivan was killed. I had been out to the garden and picked this veggie. Sullivan wanted some popcorn and Spencer wanted to swim, so while Spence swam, Sullivan sat inside and ate a whole bowl of popcorn while he watched "School House Rock". When Spencer and I came in, Sullivan said he had a belly ache (since eating the whole bowl of popcorn) so Spencer put his arm around him and said, "Come on Suvy, I will walk you to your bed."

Some things I still remember like it were yesterday. We are so blessed to have Sullivan as our first born son. He brought something to our lives that no one can ever take away. We are slowly coming to grips with him not being here, but as with most loss... it takes time. We love him so much and are so blessed he chose us to be his parents!

WE LOVE & MISS YOU!

Introducing... SAXON

2008-06-17T11:50:00.001-07:00

Saxon Davis Spradley

June 10, 2008

9:59am

8lbs. 8 oz. 20 3/4" long

The Count Down is ON!!!

2008-06-08T04:21:00.000-07:00

We are counting down to BABY! Just a matter of a day or so! We are so anxious to meet our new son and LOVE, LOVE, LOVE him! He is still just as active as ever. He moves all day and all night. I could almost swear he is a 10 pounder, but I know better. My belly has grown so much that I don't know how the baby hasn't busted out :)! If you have seem me, you know what I mean. Speaking of, Tim and I had a date night last night at Inakaya, then a little baby shopping and a quick stop for a milk shake at Wendy's. Well, when we looked in the take out window, the people were talking, then next thing we know, all of the employees were at the window looking at my HUGE belly. I guess it's not very often they see a State Fair Exhibit of the "Huge Pregger" in their drive thru.

Anywho, I will be at Palmetto Baptist Medical Center on Tuesday, June 10 at 7am for a 9am C-section. Please keep us in your prayers! The hardest part of having this baby is leaving Spencer and Sawyer for 2 nights. Sawyer has only stayed away from home for 1 night in his entire life. I know he will be in good hands with my parents, but I just hate the thought of not being with them for 2 nights!

Luau

2008-06-08T04:13:00.000-07:00

We attended the Luau Lunch at WES for first grade. As you can see, they ate lunch and played games. This was a couple of weeks ago, and it was just beginning to get hot, so after Spencer played 2 games with his class, he was ready to go... no argument from me! I had forgotten to put sunscreen on Sawyer, so his arms were getting red, and I was sweating like crazy... so we called it a day. Spencer enjoyed himself and actually ate his lunch!

Check out "Romeo" chillin' with the honey's at Elizabeth's birthday party. It was actually a break for me having all of them here, there was always someone to chase Sawyer around. heehee!!

Author's Tea

2008-06-08T04:07:00.000-07:00

Spencer's class had an Author's Tea, where each student was the author and illustrator of their own book. As you may have guessed, Spencer's book was about dogs. He did a great job! He also was given a gift card from the PTO for PERFECT ATTENDANCE! We are so proud of him for completing first grade with perfect attendance and on the honor roll ALL YEAR! GO SPENCE!!!

Primary Activity

2008-06-08T04:03:00.000-07:00

The primary had their annual summer activity yesterday, where the kids all made stepping stones. Sawyer, as usual, sat back and enjoyed his stroller. :)

Mother's Day

2008-05-13T03:18:00.001-07:00

Pardon the squint! It was cloudy until we decided to take a picture, then the sun beamed! Isn't my face lovely?! Like it isn't big enough... You get the idea though! Check out Sawyer, I told him to come take a picture and he sat on my knee and said, "cheeeeezzzz!" How cute!

Overall, Mother's Day was ok this year. Of course, there was emotion...but with me there is always emotion.

Tim started my day by making french toast, yum~o! Then we all got ready for church, vistited family, and still managed to squeeze in a short nap. Now that's my kind of day!

I am so blessed to have such wonderful children and a wonderful husband. They truly have blessed each day of my life. Each of them are so different and add so much to my world. I will treasure every memory we've made and the wonderful times to come!

Happy Mother's Day to you all!

How Does Your Garden Grow?

2008-05-13T03:12:00.001-07:00

WES First grade had there end of the year program, "How Does Your Garden Grow?" a couple of Friday's ago. As you can see, Spencer was a gardener. Surprisingly to me, He loved it!

He did such a great job! We are so proud of him!

A Newborn's Conversation with God

2008-05-07T12:55:00.000-07:00

A baby asked God, 'They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?' God said, 'Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you.'The child further inquired, 'But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.' God said, 'Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy.'Again the child asked, 'And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?' God said, 'Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak.' 'And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?' God said, 'Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.''Who will protect me?' God said, 'Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life.''But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore.' God said, 'Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you.'At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, 'God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name.'God said, 'You will simply call her, 'Mom.'

3D Ultrasound

2008-05-06T14:38:00.001-07:00

I had my34 week check up today. As you can see, I also had my 3D ultrasound. How amazing!!! This baby looks just like the other 3, no doubt! To my surprise, they also checked me today and I am 50% effaced and I am at -2 station, which means he is dropping into postition. My iron level is normal, so no more watching my diet. He did mention how much weight I had gained...but that's not relevant to any of you. My c-section is scheduled for June 10 at 9am. If you would like to attend, you may. I will be at Baptist Hospital.

Look at his sweet little lips!

That is his arm on his forehead.

Baby Shower

2008-04-29T12:51:00.000-07:00

Saturday I attended a baby shower, in my honor :). Mostly family, but a couple friends too....they may as well be family :). Thanks to everyone who gave me diapers and wipes and the other cute stuff too. All of the stuff is sure to come in handy when the baby gets here. Speaking of baby, we may have come up with a name...SORRY we aren't announcing it yet. Sorry too for not having any pictures to post. I only have 4 and they are of everyone there playing a game...my battery ran out.

Hope everyone is having a great week!

2008-04-21T18:37:00.000-07:00

You all know how clever we must be as mom's and wives, so here's my clever trick for today. As you know tonight is FHE night, SO, since I had not planned accordingly, I had to shoot from the hip... :) I was inspired by Matt 5:16, Let your light so shine... SOOOO, we had our evening planned, homework, dinner, water flowers, FHE, bath/bedtime. While we were outside watering, I ask Tim to check the landscape lights that were not working. After a moan and groan, he checked them. So this led me to my FHE lesson. While the kids and I were standing back watching Tim, I ask Spencer what did it mean to be a light to the world? And the rest is history... who would've thought a scripture would lead to getting my landscape light fixed? HEEHEE!!

Sawyer went for his 15 month checkup last week. All is well. He weighs 22 lbs and is almost 30 inches long. He is just below average in height, weight and head size. He only got one shot this time...thank goodness.

I went for my 32 week checkup today. Nothing exciting to report. NO DATE yet! Maybe next time. We did look at the call schedule and now I know who I am up against for the c-section, now I just have to pick my date.

Spencer is doing well. Honor roll, AGAIN! We are so proud of him~

I couldn't resist posting this picture to announce my new car. I finally got one last week. Of course, it's a Yukon Denali XL...white, leather, captain's chairs...yada yada! This picture reminds me of the fill ups. We have put gas in it twice, and both times were cut off at $75. The gas mileage is better, believe it or not. So far, I LOVE IT!!

April 15, 1993

2008-04-15T19:28:00.001-07:00

Sorry for not having a better picture. I just didn't feel like digging out all my pictures. Afterall, it WAS 15 years ago. Check us out....oh how things change. But before you all go making fun of us, I came across a few pictures of some of you that cracked me up :) don't make me post them.

Signing of Bill #3496

2008-04-15T19:04:00.000-07:00

We attended the signing of the DUI bill this morning. I was priviledged and honored to be a part of this great event. Govenor Sanford has pushed for change for 5 years, and this is a MAJOR step for SC. After he and several others addressed the group at the press conference, he asked me to say a few words. Of course I was emotional, but definately honored to speak. Once the bill was signed, he handed my the pen he signed with. What a wonderful gift for our 15 year wedding anniversary.

Bill #3496

2008-04-11T06:47:00.000-07:00

Gov. Sanford is expected to sign the new DUI Bill sometime within the next few days. It has passed the House and Senate and is awaiting the signature of the govenor. Thanks to all who contacted their area representatives to help push this bill along. It isn't near as strong as it should be, but hey....every little bit helps, right?!!

I will keep you posted.

And the winner is...

2008-04-10T09:34:00.000-07:00

SPENCER!

WES is doing a cookie dough fundraiser. Spencer completed the requirements for a drawing held yesterday at school...and WON! WAHOO!!

Way to go Spence!

If you would like to purchase any cookie dough, please let me know. He needs to sell 3 more tubs to qualitfy for the MEGA PARTY!

Our "S" names

2008-04-09T15:13:00.000-07:00

FINALLY, here it is. Here is our list of names. Some I like more than others, and Tim hardly likes anything. So nothing is carved in stone, and the countdown is on. HOPEFULLY, only 8 weeks to go. I should know my c-section date at my next appointment (4/21...I think).

Tonya's Picks

Syndey, Sheldon, Sloan, Saxon, Sampson, Stuart, Salem, Shiloh (too dog sounding), Skyler (too girly)

Tim's Picks

Sebastian, Stuart

Spencer's Pick

Sebastian

You ask for it, so here they are. Thanks for your input on giving us suggestion, and please...keep the names coming.

Spencer's 7th Birthday

2008-04-09T15:02:00.001-07:00

As you can see, "Mr Cheese" Spencer celebrated his birthday last Wednesday. (Sorry for the delay). He had sugar cookie with his class and was on the morning show at school that morning.

We celebrated with friends and family on Saturday. He had a pirate party. They made wooden boats and painted them and when the rain finally ended, they had a very "wet" treasure hunt.